How (And Why) To Nap Effectively In College

Over the course of childhood and into young adulthood, we happily toss aside life’s so-called training wheels as we develop into fully formed beings. Say the check-in text or phone call to parents when travelling alone or the bedroom nightlight. However, in the case of the nap, a routine procedure since birth, why are we so eager to grow up?

Instead of submitting to fatigue during those dangerous hours between 1 pm and 4 pm, we scroll mindlessly through social media, re-watch television shows on Netflix or stare at the ceiling. Somehow this is more productive or at least closer to productivity than submitting to sleep? No way! If anything once we finally acknowledge the time wasted, we’re both behind on our workload and guilt-ridden over our internet binge.

Napping for even 10 to 20 minutes boosts alertness, productivity and mood as well as alleviates stress. Meanwhile, if you nap as long as 90 minutes and thusly reach rapid eye movement (REM) sleep, you have the ability to improve creativity and memory.

Here are three strategies to nap like the tired human you probably are.


Set the alarm

For the unpractised nappers, choose a naptime that suits your schedule and sleep habits. The afternoon is the traditional and optimal time whether you’re an early bird or night owl, but in either case don’t nap later than 4 pm. However, if you struggle with insomnia consult with a doctor before building a nap into your routine. It may increase your difficulty falling asleep come bedtime. Once you’ve decided on a reasonable time, set an alarm for your wake-up. Don’t trust yourself to rise on time for the rest of your day. And, more importantly, whether you’re an insomniac or not, should you nap too long (i.e., more than 90 minutes) you’ll likely upset your regular night’s sleep.

Put your feet up

Create or find a spot conducive to napping. Obviously if you can pop home between afternoon classes and sleep in your own bed all the better. Change into comfortable clothes and block out any intruding sunlight or noise. You may choose to test out sleep music in order to help you relax. If you can’t make it to a bed, at least raise your feet up off the floor when sitting. Although you may eventually master effectively falling into a slumber while sitting (or maybe you’re just that tired), by raising you’re feet you should find it easier to doze off. You may experiment with a caffeine nap: drinking a cup of coffee immediately before taking a 20-minute nap. By the time you wake up, the caffeine should kick in, making you feel even more energized than as a result of sleep alone.

Try, try, try again

Should you struggle to fall asleep, don’t let it frustrate you. Even 10 minutes of rest has its own benefits. Napping need not become another stressor in your life. Help your mind slow down by closing your eyes and completing a body scan: relaxing different specific parts of your body from your feet to your head or vice versa. You can relax these body parts simply by thinking of them doing so. With patience and any necessary adjustments, you should eventually fall asleep.


4 Ways To Eat Your Vitamins

While shrugging off the majority of my parents’ random worries with a casual “I don’t know” may be your first instinct,  let us suggest you seriously consider your vitamin intake.

(We are not a parent, so you can take our suggestions without the slightest hint of an eye roll.)

Although having survived puberty—BO and all—bone growth continues into your early twenties. And vitamins are essential to this process as well as daily cell function and thusly tissue preservation. A balanced diet, high in nutritional value, satisfies your daily intake of essential vitamins as well as important fats, proteins, carbohydrates and fibre. Eating with vitamins in mind is a major step towards a healthy (and probably more delicious) lifestyle.

Here are four recipes inspired by three vitamins vital during young adulthood.

citrus fruit

Vitamin A

Vitamin A is probably best known for its maintenance of eye vision. So, yes, there is some truth to the power of carrots to improve your eyesight. They’re a great source of the vitamin as are the equally brightly coloured sweet potatoes. Vitamin A also plays a role in bone growth and teeth development

Recipe suggestion: roast carrot and sweet potato medley

Preheat your oven to 400 F. Chop as many carrots and sweet potatoes as your heart (or stomach) desires, washing, and in the case of the potatoes, scrubbing the skin beforehand. Scatter across a foil-lined baking sheet. Drizzle with olive oil, salt, pepper and smoked paprika (another source of vitamin A) and bake for 45 minutes or until easily pierced with a fork.  

Vitamin C

Infamously associated with oranges, vitamin C assists with immune system support and collagen production as well as serving as an antioxidant. Despite maintaining buzz word status, there is still a lot to be uncovered with regards to antioxidants and disease prevention. Simply speaking, they neutralize free radicals—unstable, harmful molecules—and thus prevent cellular damage. Find your vitamin C in citrus fruits, and if you like a little heat, chilis.  

Recipe suggestion: spicy deviled eggs and citrus BBQ sauce



Between academics and the emotional toils of college, brain health is top priority as a student. Folate, one of the B vitamins, helps produce red blood cells and is often highly recommended during pregnancy. In the case of your brain, the technicalities of biochemistry aside, this form of B vitamin is required to create serotonin, a neurotransmitter or brain chemical responsible for mood. Folate naturally occurs in dark leafy vegetables such as spinach and broccoli as well as dried legumes such as chickpeas, lentils and beans.

Recipe suggestion: spinach pesto pasta

Bring a pot of water to boil and prepare your favourite pasta, saving half a cup of pasta water. In a food processor or blender combine half a cup of your favourite nut, a quarter cup of olive oil, one bundle of fresh spinach, half a cup of Parmesan cheese and one clove of garlic and blend until smooth. If too chunky, add more oil, or if too watery, add more nuts or spinach. Toss the pasta, saved water and pesto together to finish.


4 Ways To Pay It Forward On Campus

College is sometimes a ruthless environment. As midterms approach, it’s at its peak, the library full of hopeless, fearmongering faces lost behind their laptops and textbooks. You could tackle your midterm (and not to mention winter) blues with exercise, fruits and vegetables and a solid eight hours sleep—and they all do help—but this year, take a page from Random Acts of Kindness Week. Pay it forward on campus and remind yourself, amid the impending deadlines, the world isn’t an (entirely) dreadful place.

Random Acts of Kindness Week

Visit your professor during office hours

They may not have write the midterms and eventual exams, but they do have to mark them. Don’t assume the school term is all sunshine and roses for profs, TAs and seasonal lecturers alike. Everyone’s in the lurch. Traditionally (although admittedly not always) office hours are underutilized. So surprise one or more of your instructors and schedule an appointment. Go in prepared, having read the course materials and considered questions about them or assignments beforehand. If possible—depending on the nature of your instructor—even engage in friendly conversation. Take the time to show an interest and recognize their efforts.

Surprise your classmate with coffee

Hey, remember that dude who sat beside you all term? Maybe you even collaborated on a group project together? They may not be your best friend, but assuming they aren’t a total jerk, why not finally acknowledge their presence. As part of your own Boost pre-class mobile order, pick up a treat for your classmate. During the height of term, too often we forget about or take for granted those around us. Our struggle is never singular despite how we often let ourselves believe it is.

Write a thank you card

As much as everyone enjoys hating on college life, it’s not entirely terrible, right? Instead of scrolling through Facebook as a study break, reflect on a person or on-campus service who makes the undergraduate experience more bearable. Sticking to the pay-it-forward approach, they need not have directly impacted your experience, but hopefully you’ve at least witnessed their kindness. Use your reflection to write them a thank you card. It’s a small gesture that stands out in our virtually-driven world.

Look out for volunteer opportunities

It’s not too late in the term to seek out a volunteer opportunity on-campus (or at least get the ball rolling on a future one). While it could be something more long-term, universities often advertise one- or two-day volunteer gigs in the larger community. And even if yours doesn’t, student services should have the resources to help you find such short stints. Choose something that interests you. It may even lead to something long-term or employment. If you don’t really care about it, chances are you won’t follow through. Volunteering is about commitment, not a line on your resume.


How To Build A Better: Soup

Whether a chilled cucumber number in the summer or a steaming chicken noodle in the winter, there’s a soup for every season. And it’s wonderfully forgiving to prepare. While the box or canned varieties are endless and increasingly impressive in both flavour and nutritional value, the student cook shouldn’t overlook homemade soups. What dish has study time built into its method? With some soups requiring up to 45 minutes to an hour’s worth of simmering, it’s the perfect block of time to review notes or finish an essay outline. Wherever you source your recipes from, consider the following tips for the ultimate homemade soup.

soup bowls

Size matters

Soup is best when prepared in big batches. It’s part of its appeal. However, before you go doubling, tripling or even quadrupling your favourite tomato soup recipe, ensure you have the right sized equipment for the job. If your diet is already 50% pasta, you’re likely already the owner of a big stockpot with a hopefully solid bottom and lid. No saucepan will ever suffice. Likewise invest in some quality Tupperware. The larger varieties can hold up to a week’s worth of soup, while the smaller are perfect for freezing individual portions for future meals. (Just don’t forget to let your soup cool completely at room temperature before refrigerating or freezing.)

Sweat it out

Every homemade soup starts by sweating vegetables (or in fancy food-speak, aromatics) in either oil or butter. Typically some combination of onion, carrot, celery or leek, they form the base of any flavourful soup. (The more soups you prepare, you’ll develop your vegetables and fat of choice.) As a result, never skip this step. In fact it’s the one point in the preparation when your full attention should be on the contents of your pot. A minute or two lost to your Facebook newsfeed and your finely diced onion will turn into a crisp, bitter mess. Give this component the respect it deserves. In this case, burnt is never better.

Stock up

If aromatics are the heart of any soup, stock is its skeleton. Like homemade soup, homemade stock isn’t hard. And it’s worth the effort (which isn’t much to begin with). Now, fair, real, chef-level stock, perfectly clear and clean in flavour, takes years of experience. However, something more “rustic” won’t disappoint. Got leftover bones from a roast chicken? Toss into your stockpot, cover with water, season, bring to a boil and leave to simmer for a simple chicken stock. For the veggie variety, sweat some aromatics before adding whatever leftover vegetable scraps you’d otherwise throw into the compost, add seasoning and herbs and, again, cover with water, bring to a boil and simmer. Unlike stock cubes or box stock, you can control how much salt you add and personal it to your tastes.

Smooth or chunky

After you’ve gone to the trouble to consider the preceding points, don’t ruin your soup by leaving it uncomfortably chunky or blending to baby food-like thick. Sadly, it’s usually not until you’re a few bites in, you’ll know whether or not you chose the right consistency. Thankfully, you can save your soup. For something too chunky, partially puree for the best of both worlds. If too thick, loosen by stirring in leftover stock and adjusting the seasoning.

Coffee for dummies (types of coffee from macchiato to cortado defined)

If it doesn’t include a shot or two of espresso and isn’t enjoyed in a dimly lit, “quirky” café full of hipsters and unexplained objects, it ain’t coffee. So much for Frappuccinos then, huh?  In honour of Cappuccino Day this month, let’s give thanks to real coffee. (Well, real in the eyes intense, yet sad philosophy majors turned failed actors turned latte artists.) Memorize these definitions and you’ll never embarrass yourself in an independent café again.

coffee for dummies


Number of espresso shots: one for single or two for a double (If you need more than two shots, you should probably just take a nap.)

Ratio of water to espresso: n/a

Ratio of milk to espresso: n/a

Ratio of foam to espresso:  n/a

Best enjoyed: Straight or with a sprinkle of sugar in one go standing at the counter or collapsed in your chair after a heavy meal.


Number of espresso shots: typically one or two for a double

Ratio of water to espresso: 1:1 (Increase the amount of water to espresso for a long or decrease for a short Americano.)

Ratio of milk to espresso: a splash if desired

Ratio of foam to espresso: n/a

Best enjoyed: Choose an Americano over your traditional drip coffee for a more sophisticated, yet still plain start to your day.

Flat White

Number of espresso shots: one

Ratio of water to espresso: n/a

Ratio of milk to espresso: 2:1 (milk textured and hotter than a latte or cortado)

Ratio of foam to espresso: n/a

Best enjoyed: Order for your morning coffee break—just be sure to never confuse it with its Spanish cousin, the Cortado (see below).


Number of espresso shots: one

Ratio of water to espresso: n/a

Ratio of milk to espresso: 2:1 (milk smoother and cooler than a latte or flat white)

Ratio of foam to espresso: n/a

Best enjoyed: Order for your morning coffee break—just be sure to never confuse it with its Australian cousin, a Flat White (see above).


Number of espresso shots: typically one or two for a double

Ratio of water to espresso: n/a

Ratio of milk to espresso: 2:1

Ratio of foam to espresso: a dollop of foam to finish

Best enjoyed: Drink on coffee dates. While, it’s no tea, it should provide helpful sip breaks for at least the first fifteen minutes—better longevity than most espresso-based drinks. Annoy your barista (but increase its longevity) by ordering it “extra hot”.


Number of espresso shots: typically one or two for a double

Ratio of water to espresso: n/a

Ratio of milk to espresso: 1:1

Ratio of foam to espresso: 1:1

Best enjoyed: Have a cappuccino when you hit that 4 pm low alongside a buttery croissant, crisp biscotti or moist muffin. Make it more indulgent with a spoonful of sugar or a dusting of cinnamon or chocolate. Never ask for skim or 1% milk in place of the higher percentage varieties. The fat content is necessary for perfect foam.


Number of espresso shots: typically one or two for a double

Ratio of water to espresso: n/a

Ratio of milk to espresso: 1:1 (chocolate milk)

Ratio of foam to espresso: 1:1

Best enjoyed: Have a mochaccino when you hit that 5 pm low (and your cappuccino hasn’t hit the spot). Whatever you eat with it, it better include chocolate.


Number of espresso shots: typically one or two for a double

Ratio of water to espresso: n/a

Ratio of milk to espresso: n/a

Ratio of foam to espresso: a dollop of foam to finish

Best enjoyed: Go for a macchiato when you’re undecided between the caffeine hit of an espresso or the smooth foam of a cappuccino. It’s the best of both worlds. And it’s the most likely to impress the hottie sitting at the neighboring table.


5 Apps To Help You Survive This Semester

by Hannah Lank

A new semester is upon us and with it comes many changes and many returns. Whether you’re returning to university to hammer out another year, or about to experience your first-ever semester, we can all use a little extra help managing life for the next eight months. Cue your smartphone and my top five favorite apps. Get downloading and find solace in their abilities.

Cropped image of student sitting on the ground and working on laptop

Boost Mobile Ordering

Okay, yes, this is our own app, but we’re not shy about sharing how awesome it is. Time equals money, and most students are short on both. So if you’re going to spend your money, why not also save time? Got an 8 am class and want a coffee beforehand? Order on Boost as you’re leaving your residence, and it’ll be waiting for you when you arrive on campus. 


Although we hate to admit it, it’s important to stay on top of our finances including when our credit card bills are due, where our money is going and what our overall financial health looks like. Thankfully, Mint, a secure financial app, covers all three bases and more. As students, we have a LOT of expenses: tuition, books, coffee, ramen… And they add up quickly! Mint tracks your credit card spending and organizes it into different categories (i.e. restaurants, entertainment, laundry, etc), even notifying you when you’ve exceeded your budget in one. It tracks your cash flow (income vs. expenses) and investments, suggesting how to improve your overall spending habits.


Most institutions use Blackboard to share assignments, syllabi and announcements from classes with students. (If your institution doesn’t use Blackboard, they likely use a similar platform that also has its own mobile app.) When on your phone, you can check your prof’s office hours on the go, remind yourself of upcoming assignments, or post questions to discussion boards the second they pop into your head. You’ll also get notifications when your prof posts an announcement, upcoming assignment, or new grade.


Hear me out on this one—no, it may not seem to be directly school-related, but it’s too easy to become absorbed in the bubble of student life. Although I’ve specified the New York Times’ app, download the equivalent of any news source. You don’t have to ever open it even—although reading articles about what’s up in the world is definitely not a bad thing. Instead allow it to notify you about major world events, so you won’t be completely in the dark. Eventually you may find yourself scrolling through it versus your Facebook or Twitter feeds. Don’t forget there’s a whole world outside of school, and it matters too.


When your life is practically studying, it helps to include a variety of different methods to trigger your memory reflexes. Although you could take the time to hand write keywords and definitions out on cue cards, Flashcards+ saves you time and paper. And you’ll never have to worry about leaving them behind on the bus. The app even offers a shuffling option so you don’t memorize the order of the flashcards instead of what’s actually written on them. Convenient? I think so!

How To Build Your Resume This Semester

Yeah, yeah, you’re barely on top of your academics let alone your social life, so why toss professional development into the mix? Aside from the additional lines on your resume, it provides mental breaks from those pesky academic burdens. As always, balance is key. It shouldn’t necessarily turn into a justifiable form of procrastination. And nor should school hinder your ability to commit to a job or volunteer opportunity. When in balance though and given the right circumstances, resume building expands your social circle, introducing you to communities you perhaps wouldn’t encounter otherwise, and offers perspective. Here’s how to effectively search out these opportunities, fleshing out your resume and likely scooping up a few references along the way.

Student work process concept. Young woman working university project with generic design laptop

Work, work, work, work, work, work

They’re the meat and potatoes of any resume: current and previous jobs. However, don’t overthink ‘em. Illustrious internships sound delightful, but aren’t always possible. And there’s no reason to turn your nose up at retail, hospitality, administrative or more labour-intensive positions either on- or off-campus. Whatever the environment, there are skill sets to develop, which you can then list on your resume or share in a job interview. Keep your eyes open for help wanted signs, check out the classified section of your local paper or classified sites and pay a visit to your campus careers centre.

Give a hand

Too often the victim of either overthinking or undervaluing, volunteer experience is as worthwhile as previous employment. Yes, campus clubs, societies and other branches of student life departments occasionally organize one-off or limited volunteer opportunities, but, unlike jobs, I recommend searching exclusively off-campus. (Although you don’t necessarily have to stray outside your neighbourhood.) In this case, you can tailor your search to your interests or areas you wish to learn more about (not what some university administrator chooses for you). Select an organization that respects its volunteers, offers long-term opportunities and shares similar values. Most not-for-profits have volunteer programs. And even if not advertised, e-mail them. No one likes to turn down free help.

Certify this

Aside from the skills you gain through employment and volunteering, consider certifications or skills-based courses outside your academics. (It doesn’t mean more essays. I promise.) First aid and CPR and other health-related certifications are often requirements for volunteer positions and jobs. Depending on your level of tech-savvy, there’s no harm in (finally) learning how to navigate Microsoft Excel or Photoshop. And you don’t need to major in French to boost your fluency. Track down conversation groups, one-on-one tutors or community classes. In the case of any certification or course, Google is your best friend.  

And the award goes to…

Beyond the glamour of a paper certificate or awkward employee of the month mug shot, awards are the perfect buttons to a resume. Whether they’ve heard or it or not, awards show potential employers you’ve demonstrated a level of commitment and excellence worthy of recognition. Now, of course, they should never serve as a form of motivation. Keep your eyes open for applications with requirements that match your experience and skill set and visit your student awards or scholarship department for further assistance.

5 Condiments Staples For Your Student Fridge

by Danielle Del Vicario

Ah, the mini-fridge, the quintessential icon of university life. About to move into your dorm, you have visions of your compact cooling unit fully stocked with breakfast snacks, booze and (let’s face it) more booze. You picture yourself cracking open a cold one without doing more than swivelling your desk chair. Soon though, things start to slip and the inevitable happens: your mini-fridge becomes little more than a glorified container for unused condiments. As this eventuality can’t be resisted, we’ve pieced together a list of what you would find in our fridge, and why it’s there. Because not all condiments are created equal.

student looking in fridge

Dijon Mustard

There are two types or people in the world: mustard people and ketchup people. Or as I like to look at it: people who like mustard and people who just haven’t tried good mustard yet. My number one condiment is Dijon mustard. Perfect for sausages you make on your tiny hot plate, it’s also a great on sandwiches and in quick salad dressings. (Yes, I was the freshman who made their own salad dressings in their dorm.) Grab one in a glass jar so you can help the planet a little by skipping out on plastic.


I’m not a mayo eater per se, but I appreciate its versatility. If nothing else, it’s key to a classic egg salad sandwich, easily made with a hot plate, microwave or even just a kettle.

Malt Vinegar

By now you’ve probably noticed the absence of ketchup, Sriracha, barbecue and sweet Thai chili sauce on this list. These condiments (and many others like them) are loaded with sugar. Cutting some of the less obvious sources of refined sugars from your diet is an easy way to improve your focus and mood, stabilize your blood sugar and just make you feel generally better. When you make that late night fast food run, malt vinegar and a generous sprinkle of salt is a great alternative to ketchup on your fries.

Soy Sauce

Self-explanatory if you like sushi and have ever had to deal with the ketchup packet-sized packs of soy sauce that come with your takeout. (Seriously not adequate.)

Natural Peanut Butter

I’m not sure peanut butter is classified as a condiment, but it deserves mention regardless. Whether slathered on toast, used as a dip for banana or apple slices, or just eaten straight from the jar, peanut butter is a student’s best friend. Given the addition of palm oil and sugar in most commercial peanut butters, choose an all-natural variety (which should be kept in the fridge to keep fresh). Shop around and choose your favourite.

3 Basic Recipes Every Student Needs To Know

by Madeleine Brown

“Students cannot live on dried noodles alone.” Or something like that, right?

However, unless you’re enrolled in a culinary arts program, you needn’t move into your kitchen. Stick to basic recipes, building in complexity only as time and motivation allow. Often when stressed, I’ll gravitate towards a dripping fried egg sandwich any day over some finicky sous-vide chicken nonsense. When lacking sleep and overwhelmed with deadlines, don’t make rash decisions and don’t prepare a three-course meal. Even if cooking serves as a form of relaxation, basic recipes still require enough cooking to calm you, but not so much as to set you over the edge. Nestle my favourite basic recipes in your brain next to the secret campus shortcuts and life-saving pre-order apps. You’ll have all three to thank come convocation.

Fried Egg Sandwich

Breakfast - sandwich with fried egg

1 whole wheat roll, if desired, toasted

dollop of peanut or other nut- or seed-based spread

squirt of Sriracha

2 eggs

salt and pepper, to taste

fresh coriander, if desired, chopped and to taste

  1. Slice roll in half and spread nut-based spread—say “spread” one more time, why don’t you?—and Sriracha on bottom half.
  2. Preheat a frying pan (if necessary with a splash of vegetable oil) over medium heat.
  3. Crack eggs into pan and allow to cook until whites turn opaque.
  4. Flip eggs and cook thirty seconds more or longer depending on how runny you prefer your yolks.
  5. Gently slide eggs into roll and season with salt, pepper and, if you’re a fan, coriander.

Anyway Dip and Pita Chips

homemade pita chips with dipping sauce

2 cloves of garlic, grated

1 can beans or legumes (i.e. kidney, white, red, chickpeas, lentils, etc.)

1 tbsp tahini or other nut- or seed-based spread

1 tsp lemon juice

salt and pepper, to taste

1 tsp cumin, paprika, both or other spice of choice

olive oil

2 whole wheat pitas, quartered

  1. Preheat oven to 400 F.
  2. Combine first six ingredients in a food processor or high-rimmed bowl. Blitz, using a handheld blender in the latter case, pouring in olive oil until smooth and desired texture is reached.
  3. Toss pitas onto a baking sheet and bake until crispy and browned, approximately six minutes.
  4. Serve pitas alongside dip.

Baked Potato with Greek Yogurt, Chives and Bacon

Baked Potato

1 potato, sweet or russet

olive oil

salt and pepper, to taste

2 strips bacon, variety or substitute of choice

dollop of Greek yogurt

fresh chives, chopped and to taste

fresh ground pepper, to taste

  1. Preheat oven to 425 F. (Yes, you can cook potatoes in the microwave. I do not.)
  2. Prick potato with fork and rub with olive oil, salt and pepper. Place in the oven on a baking sheet or on rack and bake for 45 to 60 minutes or until fork easily pierces skin.
  3. Meanwhile preheat a frying pan over medium heat. Fry bacon on each side until cooked through and desired level of crispness is reached. Let cool on a plate covered in paper towels and dice into small pieces.
  4. Slit potato halfway down the middle. Fill with Greek yogurt and garnish with bacon, chives and pepper.


How To Survive A New Roommate

by Madeleine Brown

It can end friendships, start floods, or worse, deplete liquor stocks: a new roommate. They take sibling squabbles to a new level. And mom is no longer around to play referee. Yet the induction of a roommate is as much a required young adult growing pain as failed papers, burnt casseroles and awkward dates. (Hopefully you never experience all three in a single evening.) Whether your roommate turns into your best friend, worse enemy, or—often best of all—the one that’s never home, you needn’t allow them to decimate your daily routine. Here are my tips to survive not only their arrival, but moreover the duration of their stay.

Moving boxes in new apartment


As the experts say, it’s the key to any successful relationship. Establish lines of communication early. Create a Facebook page for your household to post bills, share holiday plans and “book” the living room for your Wednesday night group study sessions. Likewise ensure you have your new roommate’s e-mail address and phone number. You never know when an issue may require the formality of an e-mail or urgency of a phone call. However, don’t omit the best (yet most dreaded) form of communication: in-person conversation. In an ideal world, every set of roommates could dissect household matters in weekly meetings. You needn’t run your house like some government council though, just make the effort to bring up conflicts or needs in person as often as possible. Although it’s easy to throw down dirt via Facebook, remember your roommates know where you live.


Hopefully you’ve spent some time with your new roommate in advance of their move-in date. Whether you have or haven’t, socialize with them on a regular basis. Now your definition of “regular” can vary immensely. I’ve lived with roommates with whom our socializing amounted to shared a meal (and maybe a movie) at the end of each term. Conversely I’ve socialized with roommates on an almost daily basis in the form of bedroom floor lamentations. (I highly recommend during period of high stress.) However regular, let the “fun” aspect of your relationship develop naturally. Don’t draw up an over-packed social calendar or gift them endless friendship bracelets. Like most relationships, it’ll deepen on its own terms. So never force it. And who really wants to end up living with their best friend? …that’s an entire blog post in itself.


Routines established in September can change come December. Don’t lock yourself into duties or policies. If you’d prefer to take on all the household cleaning rather than divide-up the load, do it. (What?! I like to clean.) If your roommate’s new boyfriend’s elongated stays challenge your initially flexible visitation policy, adjust it. And should such changes present further problems, change them again. Consider your own family. Your role likely shifted in nature over the course of your childhood and adolescence. And it’s likely only to shift more as you progress further into adulthood. The most successful communities acknowledge change as an opportunity for growth and development. And maybe you just don’t want to share milk anymore. So don’t!